Three of my friends are suddenly thinner, and they are delighted because none of them was dieting. One lost weight because work required her to travel across several time zones, and she found that she was sleepy, but not hungry, at mealtimes in the new time zone. Another had unexplained abdominal pain, was put in the hospital for tests, and did not eat for several days because of the tests and the pain. When she returned home, she found that she had lost several pounds. The pain went away unexplained, but the weight loss remained. A third moved and was so busy unpacking, she ate when she remembered to eat, and that consumed were protein bars unearthed in one of the boxes. Because she couldn’t remember where anything she had unpacked was, she walked miles in her home trying to locate the stuff she needed, such as her cell phone.
None of these women was obese, but each wanted to lose between 15 and twenty pounds, but had not gotten around to doing so (one for several years). However now, after noticing their unexpected weight loss, they put themselves on a diet because as one of them told me, “My weight loss was a gift and I didn’t want to throw it away.”
Who knows what motivates someone to go on a diet at a particular moment? Sometimes it is done during a traditional dieting time, such as the first week in January. Diets are started because a special occasion is occurring several weeks or months hence and right now the article of clothing to be worn is tight. Or the occasion itself calls for appearing slimmer; weddings and reunions are noteworthy for being diet motivators. Medical reasons are often motivators for weight loss, too, but sadly are usually accompanied by the development of a medical problem like diabetes or painful orthopedic issues. Occasionally a picture of oneself from an unflattering angle strips away the ability to deny the excess pounds, or the inability to fit into the new season’s clothes that fit a year ago demand that either weight be lost, or a new wardrobe be purchased. But these reasons for starting a diet involve a conscious ‘before’ when the individual was not on a diet, and a conscious ‘now’, when the diet has been started. Accidental weight loss is just that; no conscious decision is involved, it just happens.
Perhaps the most positive aspect of accidental weight loss (in addition to the lost weight itself) is realizing that it is possible to drop pounds without even trying. Many who struggle to lose weight believe that they won’t be able to. The pounds appear to be stuck with permanent glue to various parts of the body. Diets are started and weight may be lost, but to do so requires a great deal of effort: meal planning, and preparation, and time for exercise. Of course this healthy way of life should be followed regardless of weight change, but we are human and unless weight loss is substantial, we may feel that losing weight is not worth the effort we are putting into doing so.
Accidental weight loss seems to produce a looser skirt or pants, a zipper that goes up easily, a shirt whose buttons close without any obvious effort. “My unplanned weight loss proved to me that when I eat less and move more, the pounds came off, “said my friend, “and I didn’t have to follow any peculiar diet, or any specific kind of exercise.“
Accidental weight loss challenges the claims that the dieter must eat, or avoid eating, foods from specific food groups, must overcook the food, or eat it raw, must allow it to ferment to produce specific bacteria, must subject the body to fasting, cleanses, supplements made from herbs and twigs, injections of fat burning hormones, hypnosis, packaged foods made in an industrial plant, or the latest tabloid ‘miracle’ diet, in order to lose weight. When weight is lost accidentally, it seems that the body wasn’t paying attention to all these diet remedies. It just responded to less food coming in, and in some cases more energy was being used up by your body, and that simply equates to that your physiology used up some of its fat stores, for energy.
The realization that the body is capable of losing weight without formal dieting should be transformed into a strategy for continuing to lose weight. The first step should be reviewing in a non-judgmental way, the eating and physical activity habits that caused the weight gain, and next figuring out what acceptable changes can be made to sustain the weight that has already been lost. With a suddenly slightly lighter body, eating smaller portions, or going for walk rather than sitting on the sofa, may become easier. Throwing away high fat, high sugar, and high sodium snacks that have been an obstacle to weight loss, might seem sensible rather than a culinary sacrifice and exploring alternate methods of decreasing stress other than eating.
After accidental weight loss, you are unlikely to continue to lose weight without consciously making an attempt to do so, but you will be able to. Your body has shown you that it is able to remove a few of those pounds you once felt would never be lost. Now your body is just waiting for you to continue to lose more.